However you want to know about manners then the is the manual for you!
Published by George Routledge whose name is still associated with global publishing of quality academic books. This is a great book and goes into some detail regarding etiquette in the ballroom. It is quite an extensive guide.
Also for both the lady and the gentleman as guide on:
Morning and evening parties
and much more…
You can download it here Routledge’s Manual Of Etiquette